Have you heard this song by Trace Adkins? Basically, it's a guy singing about his daughter who, rather than living in the moment, is always focused on the next stage of her life. Are you guilty of this? I think I am to a certain extent. The chorus of this song is:
You're gonna miss this
You're gonna want this back
You're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast
These are some good times
So take a good look around
You may not know it now
But you're gonna miss this
Each year around my birthday I take a few minutes to ponder the whole age/aging thing. My philosophy has always been why be upset by something I can't change (Oh if only I could effectively apply that philosophy to other parts of my life!). I can acknowledge that there are things I miss and if I could do them over again I would. Regrets I suppose.
For example, I think I can remember far more about Kera's childhood than I can about Trav's. Thinking when they get older and can fend for themselves, I can have a life again. Well, they're 31 and 28, and I certainly have all the life I can handle. But, yeah, I'd take those days back in a hearbeat if I could go back knowing what I know today. Knowing enough to savor the moment. Knowing that life flies by in the blink of an eye. Knowing that the quality of life doesn't necessarily get better - it just changes. Knowing that those days really would become "the good old days."
Life really is what you make it. I need to remind myself of that now and then and remember to savor this moment and only this moment.